K.

Now I realise why K. has suddenly become so good friends with me and keeps sending "puss & kram" my way: i am the first female friend that he can talk to. I am to him a door to the fantastical world of women, which is still mystical to him. I am a door, since I open.

Wonder what he does with his girlfriend? Have fun? Is it the key to relationships, having fun together, that I have always missed? I went after "Can we talk together?"
Yes, I have been too sensible from the beginning.