men with car

i am trying to find out why i feel negatively about men with car. i suspect it is the overly confident attitude they have... or are inclined to have. the average man is over-confident anyway (some reaching the heights of unawareness by nature). owning a car seems to make it evidently worse.

over-confidence makes men arrogant. arrogance i literally hate. it makes me throw up. i think i have no tolarance whatsoever for people who do not have enough respect for others.

arrogance arises in other lifestyles as well. in science for instance. fortunately i have the perfect supervisor: he is even more aware of his surroundings then i am. i suspect men in science feel they get less than what they should and so try to push themselves on everyone else, to feel some importance in this manner. and why the scientific world seems as chaotic quality-wise as the industry. it is hard to understand how some shallow people manage to publish heaps of papers. surely in this mess one needs a push through. yet out of a scientific mind you would expect something a bit more reasonable then sheer arrogance.

i also have my worries that men think women find arrogance sexy in some instictive manner. a man who can rule is surely attractive for us weak females who always need at least some confirmation from one who "knows better". but a man who rules simply by commands uttered in high volume is at best a nuisance.